Forum Roleplaying Basics

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Forum roleplaying is a great hobby. It’s free, it’s creative, and it’s a highly social activity. If you’re interested, read on for examples of forum roleplay and some essential starter’s information.

What is Roleplaying?

Roleplay is assuming the role of a character and writing, acting, or playing as that character would. There are many forms of roleplaying: gaming console, live action roleplay, tabletop roleplay, text-based roleplay, forum roleplay, and on and on.

What is Forum Roleplaying?

Forum roleplaying happens when a group of people using a forum to create a story. The story can be loosely related, as in a large forum roleplaying game where many characters inhabit a huge world. The story can also be closely related, as in a small boarding school roleplaying game where all characters know each other.

The actual roleplaying happens through text. Roleplayers write responses to one another through posts. Each post describes the character’s actions, speech, and thoughts. Forum roleplay is often called play-by-post roleplay.

Note that play-by-post roleplay does not always take place on a forum. With the rise of social media, Tumblr has become a large roleplaying hub. Livejournal has always hosted roleplaying communities, too. Forums are still a popular way of organizing roleplaying games, however.

How Does Forum Roleplay Work?

When you roleplay, you assume the role of a character. A character is made-up entity created for roleplaying. You create a character (a person, animal, demon, alien, or whatever is appropriate for your RPG setting) and write from their perspective/role. Your character isn’t you, and you aren’t your character — you’re separate entities. You can think of it like an actor in a movie — the actor is not the character. Johnny Depp is not Captain Jack Sparrow, Mort Rainey, or John Dillinger.

An Example of Forum Roleplay

Alice (a roleplayer, as Baphomet): The hours nearest dawn were the worst for Baphomet. He hated the thought of going underground, he hated where he slept, and he hated the many dreary hours between the closing of the coffin and the rising of the moon. Gray dawn was creeping ever nearer. Even its palest beginnings of light stung his eyes. He scowled.

You (as Azazel): New as she was to the vampire clan, Azazel was already comfortable with her fellow vampires. It was always like that for her — she just melded, wherever she went. Adaptability all but ensured her long survival. There was one exception, though. That exception stood directly in Azazel’s path to sweet darkness. The slim vampire shifted her weight from one pale leg to the other, unsure what she might say to placate the dark-tempered elder. Too late, she realized he would hear even that minute movement.

Alice: Baphomet’s head swiveled around, almost serpentine. He glowered at the new-made vampire — she was young and arrogant as they always were. Their skin was as soft and fleshy as a humans, yet they always thought of themselves as gods and goddesses. “Yes? Am I in your way, little girl?” the vampire asked. He might have tainted the question with coy sweetness if it was not so desperately near to dawn.

And it goes from there! Later in the thread, Azazel and Baphomet might end up fighting, or creeping into a coffin together, or making plans to hunt later that night, or getting stuck outside of their nest, or…

Post Length

Generally, posts will be much longer than the provided examples. Some roleplaying games have word minimums, a requirement for you to write a certain amount of words within every roleplaying post. You can find roleplaying games without minimums or with very high minimums.

Forum Roleplay isn’t a fan of huge word minimums (800-1000 word minimums generally mean you’ve found a very advanced RPG — or a very silly one, depending). However, it can be helpful (especially for novice writers and the youngest roleplayers) to strive for 200-300 words per post.

Roleplay Realism

Realism is an important aspect of creating a flowing storyline. Even writing novels — if you create a world with rules and then break those rules later (especially unintentionally), it irritates your reader. Roleplay realism is not exactly like real life realism. A game based in the year 5392, with space travel and highly advanced technologies, has different rules of realism than a forum roleplaying game set in 1930. Realism is especially important in forum roleplaying because many people are writing in the same universe.

If you’re playing a kingdom RPG, and the character Azazel states that the princess should inherit because of this law in one thread, but later Baphomet says the prince should inherit because the priest has always appointed the king… well, you see? The characters are giving conflicting information, but both are treating it as the truth.

This could be an interesting plot if it was due to misdirection on Baphomet’s part or a secret scroll Azazel discovered. However, if unresolved — this might lead to confusion later (especially if the players do not remember who was correct). Re-reading old posts might lead to even more confusion.

In order to be successful in a forum roleplaying game, you should know your RPG’s acceptable level of realism. If you don’t care about realism, you can always find a simpler, freeform game. However, in some of the most complex forum RPGs, realism is very important.

Writing in A Collaborative Environment

OOC Does Not Equal IC


Out of Character. This is the player, the person behind the computer.
In Character. This is the character, the fictional creation.

One of the most important things to remember in forum roleplaying: your character can be different from you. Many people say your character should be different, and that it’s the best way to roleplay. New roleplayers find it easy to create “themselves” as characters. This can very easily lead to destructive roleplay behavior, though! For example, a player with a self-character may take offense at another character disliking the self-character.

IC does not equal OOC. Keeping that in mind is very important for an enjoyable roleplaying experience. Just because a character dislikes your character does not mean that player dislikes you. A fight between players does not mean characters have to start disliking one another (though it may be easiest to avoid drama by avoiding the roleplayer).

In Character and Out of Character are separate realms best kept separate.
In Character and Out of Character are separate realms best kept separate.

IC Action Equals IC Consequence

One essential of forum roleplaying is remembering you are writing a story with many other players. Though your character is important to you, others’ characters are equally important to them. Though there is great freedom in online forum roleplaying, it’s not absolute.

It is important to remember that for your character’s actions, there are often consequences. Though it was a fun plot when your character suddenly snapped, your RPG group leader may not approve. This plot could end up with your roleplay character being kicked out (in a Limited Consent game) or killed (in a Non-Consent game).

Don’t expect to be able to do whatever you want at all times. If you roleplay, there are other people playing, too. If your character does something, other characters will react. Some roleplaying games have courtesy policies requiring at least cursory discussion of certain plots. If you do not extend this courtesy to others before plotting something out of the ordinary, you may end up with some unintended or unwanted consequences.

Interweaving Stories

It is also important to remember that your character is not the central point of the plot at all times. Don’t join a thread where there is clearly something going on between the other characters and expect everyone’s focus to shift to your character. Play to the story; don’t expect others to gravitate toward or even care about your character in any particular moment.

Azazel: The coyote leaned over his mother’s grave, his ears folded back and his expression somber. There was not an ounce of happiness within the man. She didn’t need die, he thought, again and again.

Baphomet: He wandered toward the other wolf, clearly distraught. “I lost my favorite bag, man,” he said. This was his absolute favorite possession and he really wanted it back.

This would be really rude in real life — it’s also really rude in roleplaying. If a player has a particular idea or plot in mind, reply only if you’re interested in shaping that storyline with them.

Roleplay Thread Types

There are usually different types of forum roleplaying threads:

  • All Welcome or Open threads are free for any roleplayer to join.
  • Private or Closed threads are intended for specific roleplayers who were invited to that thread.
    • Don’t join private or closed threads you weren’t invited to. Your post may be deleted or removed, depending on the RPG rules.
    • Ask before you start a private thread for someone. If your thread “demands” their presence or requires it, it’s kind of inconsiderate of their thread load, real life, other duties, and so forth. Please be considerate.

Bad Roleplay

If you’re brand new to roleplaying, please see the Bad Roleplay Guide. These are very important aspects to avoid when learning how to forum roleplay.

Resources in Forum Roleplaying Basics

  • Choosing an Online RPG

    The kind of online RPG game you should join is based on a number of factors. No one can tell you exactly what kind of forum roleplaying game to join. Most aspects of finding “your” place are issues of personal taste and preference. This guide highlights some considerations to help you make the best decision […]

  • Dictionary of Roleplay Terms

    This roleplay dictionary attempts to explain some basic terms of forum roleplaying, as they relate to forum roleplay. It is by no means comprehensive or intended to be an end-all, be-all guide — the precise specifics of each definition may vary from one game to the next. Always remember — roleplay terms can and will […]

  • Forum Roleplay for Parents

    Parents — your child is spending a lot of time on the Internet lately. It’s obviously not Facebook or Twitter — the image on the site is a vampire, scarily enough! What’s all of this about? If your child is showing you this page, they are enaging in something called “forum roleplaying.” Forum roleplaying is […]

  • Basic Roleplay Character Creation

    There are three main things to consider in RPG character creation. These three aspects are the meat of your character, essentially — their blood and bones and muscle! Each category has specific sub-categories that are particularly important in creating a character, as well. The exact specifics of realism and acceptable character types may vary by […]

  • Writing for Roleplay

    The very basics of writing for forum roleplay are similar to writing well in school. Yes — you have to write well in forum roleplay! If that prospect makes you frown, roleplaying on forums may not be for you. It’s a creative writing pursuit, after all. That said, you don’t have to worry about perfection: […]

  • Where to Find RPGs

    This is a list different networks or communities which host a large number of play-by-post styled roleplaying games. Essentially, this is a good place to look if you’re seeking different ways to play RPGs instead of just different RPGs. Alternatively — you can also look at this as a list of different places you can […]

  • Good Roleplay Etiquette

    While the exact nuances of good roleplaying etiquette may vary from one RPG to the next, the following concepts are generally considered good manners. Breaking these concepts isn’t likely to get you banned from a game (Bad Roleplay will, though). Poor roleplay etiquette still won’t win you any friends or permanent roleplaying partners, though, and […]

  • Avoiding Bad RPGs

    There is Bad Roleplay out there, but there are also bad roleplaying games, too. Online especially, where free board hosts enable just about anyone to create a forum roleplaying game, you can find a multitude of bad RPGs. There are some warning signs for bad RPGs, though — if you know what to look for. […]

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